“NAMASTE”. This is probably the first and last word that you will
hear and use when you visit Nepal. It means “hello”, “goodbye”, “good
morning”, “good afternoon” or “good evening”. This greeting is spoken
with the hands together as if praying and usually with a huge smile
spread across your face! The people of Nepal have stolen my heart during
this one month trip to “the roof of the world” or Himalaya, where lies
Everest, the worlds highest peak. Nepal is sandwiched in between China
and India but clearly marks its independence from India with a 15
minutes time difference and is a place of exile from China for the
Tibetan monks. Nepal also lives in the future with its official Bikram
calendar, placing them in the year 2065. The official date may well have
the Nepalese ahead of us Europeans but in all other aspects Nepal
firmly maintains its culture, traditions and customs.


The
caste system is now illegal but remains firmly in place as families
continue to arrange the marriage of their daughters. After watching
Bollywood movies, the young people try to break away from the tradition
of going into the family business and marrying young. They are now
concerned with completing their studies, going to university and
learning languages to avoid unemployment and low wages in traditional
activities such as agriculture, textiles and ceramics.
Nepal is one of the worlds poorest countries in terms of income despite
of the earnings gained from tourism (trekkers to the Annapurna region).
That said, the Nepalese are very family and community orientated. It is
common for grandparents, parents, children and grandchildren all to
live in the same house. Most people wake up at 5am to go to the temple
to pray, meditate or practice yoga before having breakfast and going to
work. The standard workday is from Sunday to Friday from 10am until 5pm.
Breakfast, lunch and dinner usually consists of rice or “Daal-bhat”(staple
meal of boiled rice, lentils and curried vegetables), which is eaten
with the right hand since the left hand is used for cleaning yourself
when you go to the toilet! Most of the population is Hindu or Buddhist
and believe in reincarnation and karma. The ´sacred´ cows roam the
streets and sit themselves in the middle of roads, as taxis swerve to
avoid hitting them, which would be penalised with a 20 years prison
sentence.
The monkeys (also sacred) are found around the temples, waiting to
steal the worshippers offerings of food to their “Gods”. Unfortunately
the dogs do not have such an easy life on the streets, looking for food
and shelter, as they are believed to be reincarnations of people with a
bad karma in a previous life! The women hand-wash their clothes and
leave them to dry over the vegetation (no washing machines, tumble
dryers or clothes lines!). The
women tend to work in the rice paddy fields and the men continue to
carry heavy goods on their heads. Bargaining is a common practice and
turns the average shopping experience into a fun game!


The motive
of this 3 week (August 2008) trip to Nepal was to participate in a
solidarity camp with the Spanish NGO, Setem. I travelled with a group of
8 Spanish volunteers to work with locally based NGOs, ´Mahaguthi´ in
Kathmandu and ´Children of Nepal´ in Pokhara. We
all lived with local Nepalese families and worked 6 days a week. At
Mahaguthi, 5 volunteers and I, helped to develop the Marketing strategy
for 2009, to design 4 Christmas greeting cards to be sold to Spanish
companies, took photos of the products, translated and edited documents
for the website and visited local Fair Trade producers of ceramics,
textiles (clothes and toys), silver, jewellery, musical instruments
(singing bowls) and paper (greeting cards, photo albums and frames,
notebooks and bookmarkers).
We
also had the opportunity to visit one of the first Ashrams in Nepal,
opened by Gandhi and one of the many orphanages (Bal Griha“Life
Improvement Children Home” run by Jeewan Utthan), which receives funds
from Mahaguthi.
All the people we met were very friendly, positive, open and proud. They always welcomed us with the national drink,
chiya
(bolied tea leaves, milk and sugar together) and were happy to share
information about their daily lives and prospects for the future. They
were curious to know where we were from, why we were there, what we
thought of Nepal and how their country is portrayed internationally. The
Nepalese are eager to please and leave you with a positive image of
their country

and encourage you to return again soon!
The
people want the country to open its borders and to advance but they are
concerned by what the “Western” style of life will bring and change.
Fortunately enough, there is not a single McDonalds in Nepal and the
international brands, such as Coca-Cola is imported to be consumed by
the visiting tourists! Eventually Nepal will have to look for help from
its neighbouring countries, if it wants to escape the energy crisis and
save its people from living below the poverty line.

Recently the
Maoists entered into power and an agreement has been reached with India
to exploit Nepal´s major energy source, water. I just hope that this
will not come at the cost of the environment and local communities!
Maybe now, the Maoists will tackle the daily problems, such as traffic,
pollution and rubbish so that the population does not have to spend so
many hours a day stuck in traffic jams and breathing in the car fumes. Another
major issue is the cost of petrol at more than 1 euro/litre, when the
daily wages of a Nepalese is only 2 euros and its scarcity, which causes
kilometric queues and people to miss going to work! We will just have
to see what happens in time and believe that the presence of the UN,
NGOs, international community and the present government will be able to
support this transition.
This has been my first trip to Asia and I
am sure that I will return again soon! Nepal has had a huge impact on
my life! Arriving in Madrid, I feel spiritual, happy, positive,
motivated and extremely grateful for my circumstances and ready to make
some changes in my life style. I will most certainly think more
carefully before I purchase and I will be buying more Fair Trade goods. I
have also realised that if necessary I can live without meat, I have a
keen interest to find out more about Buddhism and perhaps meditation or
yoga will help to battle the daily “stress” we confront in the “West”. I
highly recommend a visit to Nepal, I think it offers a little something
to everyone and it is always a pleasure to find a country that
maintains its culture but is so welcoming to its visitors! “NAMASTE”.
Nicola Reid.
Websites of interest:
www.setem.org
www.mahaguthi.org
http://www.children-nepal.net/
www.jeewanutthan.org
www.thehimalayantimes.com/
www.lonelyplanet.com/worldguide/destinations/asia/nepal/
www.nepalhomepage.com/
http://www.welcomenepal.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nepal